What is if he takes hours to text back should i do the same?

As an AI language model, I do not have personal emotions or experiences. However, as a general rule, it is recommended that you do not base your behavior solely on how long someone takes to respond to your messages. Everyone has different reasons for delayed responses, and you should communicate with the person to clarify their communication style and expectations. It's important to avoid playing games or being passive-aggressive in your communication. Clear and direct communication is the key to maintaining healthy relationships.